Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Correlating 2 Worlds; Complete with exerts by the author.

Plett Rage

             The first meal I devoured in South Africa was a mini tube of Pringles, a four-pack of oreos, and a calcium vitamin water. I’m pretty sure I was subconsciously expecting to find bugs and leaves for sale, because I was rather taken back by how Americanesque the gas station was. My expectations since that first night have also been pretty far from reality. I was prepared to live in a grass hut in view of Pride Rock. Complete with pet giraffes grazing nearby. Plettenberg Bay, I have come to find, is in no way similar to the Liong King. Saturdays are spent on the beach or shopping the boutiques in town. There is excellent dinning and an upbeat nightlife. The locals are all in all, quite welcoming with their distinct accents.

Surf CafĂ© has become our hang out. We socialize on the deck, munching on their delicious nachos and veggie burgers. The staff knows us as “the group of Americans”, occasionally questioning us about our “holiday”. We go on to share about our work projects in the surrounding townships with Plett Aid.

“The townships are pretty hectic, eh?” replied our waiter one afternoon. Well hectic is one way of putting it, I suppose. And when asked about his perspective on racism in the area he replied, “It’s really not that bad anymore.”

The thing is; Plett residents like this fine young man, who have spent most of their lives in the area, literally, don’t have a clue. I’ve heard comments concerning how the locals don’t think the townships are abnormal and I’ve come to the conclusion that to South Africans, townships are just a part of living in the Eastern Cape.

My advice for them: Take a drive up the hill, and it’s a whole other world. And let me know if its really “not that bad”.


Kwanokuthula: A quiet place.

Walking through the front doors of the Kwanokuthula clinic every morning a little after eight, I have a mix of two emotions. One is, shamefully, of white superiority and the other is of sympathy. The people of Kwano line the walls of the entranceway, patiently waiting for the receptionist to pass them on into the larger waiting area. Anya and I bypass these civilians and sit in our corner of the waiting room, anticipating the arrival of our caregivers.

I’ve sat in the same beige plastic chair almost every morning for the past five weeks. I normally have my head buried in my Kindle, but occasionally I witnessed something out of the ordinary. I’ve seen a white nurse lose her temper on the stubborn patients who neglect to swallow their tablets every morning. I’ve seen a curious youngster creep closer and closer to my backpack in search of sweets. I’ve seen children scolded for playing with the wheelchairs. I’ve seen crippled men hobble in on their canes in search of an empty seat. I’ve seen mother after mother take down the babies from their backs, tied with blankets, to wait for the doctor to tell them why their infant has a cough.

In the background the TV music plays softly from across the room, the janitor drags a clanking bag of trash over the tile floor, and the roar of the crowd is a mix of English and clicking Xhosa. Coughing fits break out in between announcements called on the intercom. I’m occasionally interrupted in my writing with a “good morning” or “unjonny”, from a clinic worker.

The people of Kwano chat with one another about matters I do not only understand, but I will probably never have to experience. The warm hearted giggles between neighbors may be because they see each other as complete equals. All dressed in mix-matched hand-me-downs. The feeling of togetherness that can be found in the waiting room of the clinic, as well as in the streets of Kwano, is something spectacularly admirable. These people and their families struggle together, laugh together, live together. I sometimes envy the sense of belonging that comes along with this lifestyle. Kwano seems a simple place compared to the hustle of living in the States, but below the surface, to say life is simple for these people would not do them justice.



(The following are exerts from my journal.)

It strangely reminds me of a scene from the Walking Dead. People drag themselves up and down the street, stopping occasionally to inquire on what their neighbors are up to. Life is slow and quiet as Poppy and I start our rounds. Freerange roosters crow, and the township begins to wake for one more day of despair, masked by hope of a better tomorrow.

I’ve walked the streets of Kwano in the cool rain and in the beaming hot sun. It has been hot, and has also been cold, but the weather has little to do with the emotional floods I trudge through on a daily basis. I walk the dusty brick sidewalks alongside Poppy, asking the occasional question and attempting to make small talk. Her life is ultimately a mystery to me still, other than the bits and pieces of information she offers up on occasion. I’ve gathered from our time together that she would much rather talk about others, opposed to herself. She often tells me tragic stories of our patients and how hard their lives have been, translating their Xhosa complaints to English for me.

Cars pass by on “the wrong side” of the road, and I often look both ways several times before trailing behind Poppy. The main street through Kwano is busy with small manual engines, gearing up and down in-between the frequent speed bumps. Taxi vans hook obnoxiously when they pass someone they know, and Poppy often hollers after vehicles with their windows down, upon recognizing the driver. Along with the bustle of the main street, people walk to and fro greeting each other along the way. I can only assume the difference between those who are off to the workplace and those who spend their days working at home. Children make their way to school when our taxi drops us off in the morning, and by the afternoon they are playing in the Primary School yard. Many children, however, roam the side streets and alleyways, unable or unwilling to attend school. The boy with his trash bag kite and the boy who spent his cents to give me a piece of grape candy from the corner shop.


The floors are covered in shreds of linoleum and plastic, the walls are chipping of bright paint, and the front door is always open. A woman lies covered in fleece blankets still at midday because she has no legs. A man struggles to sit up because his right arm cannot function correctly, due to a stroke. Another lady sits bewildered as I take her blood pressure, because she suffers from epilepsy. Two children gulp down crushed TB meds doused in water from little plastic teacups. I feel bed behind my mask, because I hope the old man isn’t too offended that I do not want his TB germs.

At times I’ve been uncomfortable and anxious, but I’ve also been extremely comfortable on many a couch in many a shack in Kwano. I was touched by the drunk woman who aggressively demanded I giver her my clothes. I was touched by the man who insisted I come live with him, because he had no wife. I was touched by the woman who told me she was an example of living with AIDS.  I was touched by the lady who told me, “You make me strong.”, after praying for her medical issues. My heart is truly overwhelmed by all I have had the privilege of experiencing in Kwanokuthula.



Sitting on this silk comforter beside a man whom I do not know, in a room filled with a patient’s family, I am grateful. Nurse Cindy carefully describes that this eighty-one year old man is overcome with cancer of many types. His sister explains that he has refused treatment. And I wonder what it takes for Nurse Cindy and Poppy to remind themselves why they do this job every day.

Monday, October 14, 2013

Cape Town in Snapshots.

Our arrival consisted of driving around aimlessly for two hours searching for our backpackers. Which we finally found around 1am on one of the sketchiest streets I have ever seen. After we made it safely past the hobos, we nestled in for a little nap.

"I'll say on behalf of your mother, do not get a tattoo!" Silvia, one of the sweetest people I have ever met, talked me out of getting a tattoo after I told her my mother had previously instructed me to plan on moving out if I came home in April with any ink. Silvia had spent the past half hour braiding and wrapping my hair, while also telling me all about her life and her faith. She is from the Congo and speaks beautiful french and "a little bit" of English. She spends her days styling hair out of her little market booth to give her two sons some spending money, while they study in Cape Town. She continued on and on about how she felt so blessed to be where she was in life and that all that she has is by the grace of God.
"I will pray for you and your friends, I believe it is the young people who are sent to do God's work."

"Do you know how to eat?" The Ethiopian waitress asked us, as we looked pretty stunned at the platter of meat and sauces on our table with no utensils in site. She proceeded to show us how to tear apart the sour bread and literally dig in. It turned out to be quite the delicious experience. 

"This is an adventure guys!" This was my attempt at making the six of us feel better about having just boarded a train for $1.80 to spend the next two hours bumping along the tracks toward Simons Town. Shortly after my cheerful comment, the security guard came to check our tickets. "You are sitting in first class, you need to move down cars." We gathered ourselves for the sprint at the next brief stop, down to the third class car. We had been pretty much by ourselves in first class, but we soon found ourselves packed in a train car like sardines with all of the locals. There was a blind man playing guitar and another man in the middle of what seemed to me some old school Baptist preaching. After we had insured our bags were tightly protected under our arms, we broke out in a fit of giggles. This, was definitely an adventure.

"Is the internet workin'?" I asked a blonde headed British girl sitting at the desktop computer at our backpackers. 
"What??" she asked. 
I repeated, "Is the internet workin'? The lady at the front desk said it wasn't workin'.." 
"I don't understand." As she looked up at me like I was an idiot. 
"Oh, okay. Like the internet, it's not workin'?"
"I'm not sure.." (Her Skype was pulled up, so she clearly knew.)
"That's okay, thanks!"
I turned around and went downstairs fairly confused with what had just happened. I told Ellen and Charlotte, and Ellen replies: "Maybe she didn't understand your accent. It's pretty thick."
Well this thought had not occurred to me, but was clearly the issue. That poor British girl was probably upstairs thinking "who was the hick who doesn't know how to finish her words..." LOL.

We wrapped up our weekend with a trip to Robben Island to tour the prison where political prisoners were held during the apartheid era. What an extraordinary story that I think is important for everyone to hear from one of the tour guides who was also held there. It was on the rocky shore of Robben Island Sunday morning that it finally hit me, how thankful I am for TBB, and just how seriously awesome my life is.